tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3205672428937169220.post714959284332355648..comments2022-11-17T04:53:24.350-08:00Comments on MJ's Memories: How's Motherhood Treating You?Meganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13440297344300028377noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3205672428937169220.post-87270958140380231562010-06-14T20:51:22.875-07:002010-06-14T20:51:22.875-07:00Found your blog through my Lori.
There are no wo...Found your blog through my Lori. <br /><br />There are no words for me to share the depth of sadness I have for you. <br /><br />You are living what is my worst nightmare. And I am so very very sorry, Megan. I wish more than anything this was not your life. This was not Will's life and that he had his brother beside him as he should. <br /><br />This is not how it is supposed to be. Twins should not be separated. You are very right and justified in feeling that way. <br /><br />And I'm sorry to tell you but I think you may have a harder time than most BLM during the grieving process because you have a beautiful living reminder of exactly what MJ would be doing. What he would look like. And you WILL ALWAYS see his shadow behind Will.<br /><br />And that will make it very hard to stop grieving.<br /><br />But maybe someday it can be a ...gift? You will get to see MJ, too? In some way? I don't know. All I am trying to say is how very very sorry I am that you don't get to have them both. It is not fair.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01470329214561952744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3205672428937169220.post-67140744940671359182010-06-14T16:42:18.977-07:002010-06-14T16:42:18.977-07:00So much of this resonated with me...just today I t...So much of this resonated with me...just today I told a good friend that I felt like the rest of my life was a no-win...there are just so, so many situations that don't have an easy button. I'm tired of no-wins. They hurt.<br /><br />Praying for you as you miss your sweet boy and work toward a brother or sister. I also fretted about getting pregnant again (especially since it took 10 years to do so in the first place) and had all the same worries--it was a REALLY rough c-section, body was different, etc...my OB even told me she wasn't worried about my next pregnancy, she was worried about how hard it would be to get pregnant. (Thanks, that's comforting.)<br /><br />Praying for your success and that your anxiety is relieved some.<br />xoxoLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.com